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"You know, I was in jail.  The judge told me that I was awarded $864 and if I go and pick up the money, they'll arrest me and throw me in jail again."  My mom began answering the simple question that my husband had asked my mom.

My mom believes that she went to jail after watching an episode of Judge Mathis.

Last week, when she was having wild hallucinations after sitting in the backyard for hours in the heat, she believed that she was part of the TV court drama.  She believed that the judge awarded her money... she believed that he threw her in jail.

On the drive up to Maine, she told us about jail.  "That was the worst experience, being in jail."  I do remember her being very angry with me after the court show had ended.  I wouldn't let her go outside in the heat.  I made her stay inside... this must have been "jail" and I was her warden.

Dehydration.  It is allowing my mom to dream up some pretty crazy scenarios.  Over the last few weeks, I've gotten myself into a great deal of trouble with her.  Hallucinations created in her mind made her angry... with me!  She has had a chip on her shoulder, attempting to pick fights at any moment.

It has been difficult for me to keep my mouth shut.  It's akin to someone poking you with a sharp stick.  It's annoying and after constant poking can drive even the most patient Care Giver to a breaking point.

My husband was able to talk to my mom last night before dinner.  She was agitated.  She was stuck on her jail hallucination.

"I am worried about the $864 that I was awarded by the judge.  If I go to pick it up, they'll arrest me."  My mom told my husband.

"Well, what if we can get them to send the money to someone else?"  My husband asked.

"No.  They'll get in trouble.  I'm worried that whoever gets the money, will be arrested."  My mom added in a worried tone.

"What if we have them send the money to the baby?  They can't arrest the baby."  I added.

"Yes, we can be sure that the money goes to your Great Grandson, then you don't have to worry about losing the money or going to jail."  My husband continued as he brushed his hands together as though he was dusting dirt from them, "It's all done, nothing to worry about."

My mom looked at Brian as though a bulb went off in her head.  "Aw, gee thanks.  That's terrific."  My mom was smiling, she was relieved.  She was getting the money "owed" to her, wasn't going to jail and she was able to give something to her handsome little Great Grandson.

Today we'll find out definitively from the blood test if she does need to be juiced up with more fluids.  I have noticed that after she has something like chicken soup. she does seem more clear and is way more pleasant.  My mom is drinking water, in her demented state, deep down she knows that she needs to drink water.

Hallucinations are part of our day.  Food and water are the triggers, too much food and she will hallucinate, too little water will also bring them on.  It's a balancing routine for us, every day we walk the line between Crazy Land and Reality.  What will today bring?

Can Dehydration Cause Hallucinations?

It's never a dull moment when caring for a senior with dementia.  As a Care Giver to my mom, I have gotten in the habit of observing everything from a watchful eye.  I notice changes.  I've come to realize that subtle changes can mean big trouble for my mom.

Hallucinations are always a part of our day.  I hear about wedding ceremonies and visits from dead relatives.  She sees wild animals and domestic animals, frequently asking me when did we get 2 more cats.

Hallucinations can be unnerving for folks, to be pulled from reality and into the world of the demented, especially when the individual experiencing delirium is a parent.

Over the last 2 years, I have written my observations, thoughts and feelings about my mom's illness.  Analytical thinking has driven me to find the reasons for my mom's behaviors.  I believe there's always an answer, a simple solution.  I believe there's always a cure for everything, even when doctors tell us "there's no hope for a cure."

Really?  No hope?

I believe that there is no KNOWN cure for what ails my mom and so many other seniors on the planet.  Maybe there is a known cure but because the drug companies and medical community are profiting from the illness, the truth is being kept from us.

The reason that I believe we could be being duped is that in America, the healthcare system is in the healthcare business, a business FOR PROFIT.  These companies do not owe anything to the people who consume their poisons, they do have a legal fiduciary obligation to their stock holders.

For profit drug companies makes me wonder why people believe in drugs, drugs that seem to make a person more sick, requiring more drugs.  Until healthcare becomes NOT FOR PROFIT we won't find cures, or if cures are discovered, everything will be done to keep the public from hearing about it.  This one fact has been my driving force, it keeps me hopeful and looking because I don't believe anyone who's profiting from illnesses.

We've done a lot to help my mom to be more present so that she can enjoy her family and her life.  She's physically stronger than she's been in decades.  She's off all pharmaceutical medications, taking only natural supplements and food.  We have a Naturopath Doctor who helps prescribe plant medicines and administers Acupuncture twice a week.

My mom is doing much better.  She's lost 100 pounds through changing her lifestyle.  She couldn't change it on her own.  I was a bit of a bull with her, insisting that she change her ways or she'd be committed to a home.  It was a fight, an uphill battle to get my mom to understand that I wasn't being mean because I wouldn't let her eat junk foods, foods that I believe brought on the illnesses in her body.

It's been almost 2 years since we began down the road of renewed health.  We all are healthier and in a better state of being because of a few simple changes that we made gradually, one change at a time, slow and steady.

On Saturday we went to Maine for my mom's 81st birthday celebration.  It was hot.  Very hot and humid.  My mom is a senior, seniors with dementia lose their thirst response.  Drinking water and staying hydrated becomes difficult for a senior, especially one with dementia.  Lack of fluid in the body throws off the balance and can cause UTI's (urinary tract infections) which are prevalent among seniors with cognition issues.

UTI's cause hallucinations in my mom.   Hallucinations that talk to her and tell her things, she becomes delirious.  Believing what her hallucinations tell her, my mom often gets angry with me for no logical reason.  It sucks.  Hallucinations that turn a patient against a Care Giver leaves one with no recourse; a nursing home.  My mom has been hallucinating a lot the last few months, bringing behaviors to the forefront which are making me look for nursing homes to have her live.

I did learn that when her blood pressure and blood sugar are elevated she hallucinates.  When both are elevated at the same time, she hallucinates but she also turns on me, her Care Giver.

The most recent observation that I've made is the link between dehydration and her hallucinations.  My mom has been complaining of her kidneys hurting.  We had a pee test done and she doesn't have a UTI, but she is hallucinating like she does.  Her other symptoms in addition to wild hallucinations, are dizziness, tiredness and disorientation; all symptoms of dehydration.

I began to put two and two together.  My mom doesn't like to drink water.  She sips little amounts, little bits that don't amount to much fluid intake.  It's been super hot.   She insists on sitting out in the sun, on the patio where she can watch the ceremonies or talk to her hallucinations, her friends.  The longer she sits outside, the more wild her hallucinations.  She refuses to drink anything except decaffeinated coffee.

Searching on Google for answers, I found a few links that convinced me that my mom could be hallucinating more, even after her Acupuncture treatments, because she's dehydrated.

Here are the links that I found and used to draw my conclusion as to why my mom has been having intense hallucinations since this heatwave hit the Northeast of the US.

http://allnurses.com/geriatric-nurses-ltc/geriatric-uti-hallucinations-492105.html

http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/112365.php

http://www.healthy-water-best-filters.com/

My mom drank a big glass of water this morning.  She is still hallucinating.  I am sure she needs lots more water to rehydrate herself.  I am on a mission to convince her that water is her friend and drinking it daily will help her to make sense of the world around her.  I know I'm hopeful; there's nothing wrong with having hope, it's how cures are discovered.  

The question that I am working on answering is, can dehydration cause hallucinations?