tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1879192449061145204.post1732376393921248098..comments2024-01-05T01:05:21.841-05:00Comments on Back Door Logic: Overcoming GriefSusan Higginshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07019940790074997076noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1879192449061145204.post-23871425487971407072011-03-24T08:06:08.466-04:002011-03-24T08:06:08.466-04:00Missy... letting go of grief is liberating. You o...Missy... letting go of grief is liberating. You owe it to yourself and the people that you love that are still alive.Susan Higginshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07019940790074997076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1879192449061145204.post-90314223897302390542011-03-23T21:06:27.182-04:002011-03-23T21:06:27.182-04:00I am terrible with grief. I can never simply griev...I am terrible with grief. I can never simply grieve. I hold it in, turn it into physical... I have Loved Ones who grieving came easy and others I have "postponed."Missyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13032317917976482505noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1879192449061145204.post-3619285730783851952011-03-23T18:25:21.050-04:002011-03-23T18:25:21.050-04:00It's your choice to hang on to the grief or le...It's your choice to hang on to the grief or let it go. <br /><br />The point that I was making is to focus on the positive and happy memories; it will set you free to live with the living and make new memories.Susan Higginshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07019940790074997076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1879192449061145204.post-2320187451665762682011-03-23T17:35:00.772-04:002011-03-23T17:35:00.772-04:00Most of my grief comes from a memory parked in a c...Most of my grief comes from a memory parked in a crevice of my brain. Baseball games make me miss sitting in the back yard watching the Sox with dad, the smell of my car, previous owner definately had a good stash reminds me of Ed and I living at Lloyd St. But seeing someone on a Motorcycle brings the image of two cops breaking the news, Identifying Ilene over the phone by her tattoo and the video screen images of the accident recreation photos where I knew the blue tarp in the background was her and if the car she hit had that much damage what the hell did she feel?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com